It’s never too early, as a parent, to start shaping how your child relates to food. Good eating habits take root in childhood, and small changes now can make a big difference later. Dr Bernadette Rock shares four of the best ways to encourage healthy eating habits in kids.
As parents, we often worry about whether our children are “getting enough” or eating the right kinds of food. We fret about junk food, and about how to help our kids build a healthy relationship with their bodies. It can all feel like a minefield — but building healthy eating habits as a family doesn’t have to be complicated.
Encourage Healthy Eating Habits in Kids
#1. Tell them the truth about food
Even small children are influenced by advertising. Most parents will recognise the demands for a yoghurt or cereal with a cartoon character on the box.
Your child is never too young to hear the word “no.” Soften this by explaining that some foods need to be limited so we can stay healthy and strong. Give them real information, such as “there are five teaspoons of sugar in that yoghurt.” Sharing facts like this, rather than just saying no, helps children start making their own better choices as they grow.
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#2. End the conflict!
The dinner table can quickly become a battleground. Children pick up on that tension, and it can create negative associations with food that last well into adulthood — plenty of grown adults still can’t face a carrot because of a childhood standoff.
If your child refuses a food, such as broccoli, forcing them to eat it at dinner usually just reinforces the negative feeling they already have about it. Instead, invite them to help you cook. Letting them chop vegetables or stir the pot gives them a sense of control, and most kids will happily taste as they go when they’ve had a hand in making the meal.
If all else fails, blitz the vegetables and work them into a favourite dish. Whatever you do, try not to let the dinner table become a battle zone.
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#3. Don’t force them to eat
Every parent has heard it at the dinner table: “I’m not hungry.” It’s entirely possible your child means it — especially if they’ve been filling up on “invisible” calories all day. Juice and other sugary drinks are usually the biggest culprit.
If your child says they’re not hungry at mealtimes, don’t force the issue. But don’t offer a substitute afterwards either. A child who skips dinner shouldn’t then be given a treat once the meal is over — that just teaches them that skipping dinner gets rewarded.
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#4. Switch off the TV
It sounds obvious, but a huge number of children eat snacks and meals in front of a screen, and this habit leads to mindless, extra eating. Mindless eating is one of the most common food issues seen in adults — think of how easy it is to polish off an entire packet of biscuits while watching a favourite show.
Stopping the habit before it starts is one of the best things you can do for your child. Switch off, or at least pause, the screen while they eat a snack or a meal. Try not to pair eating with watching TV — let them focus on and enjoy their food instead, so they learn to eat consciously rather than out of habit.
None of us is a perfect parent — the perfect parent doesn’t exist. But taking these four small steps can help your child grow up understanding the benefits of choosing the right foods at the right times.
Frequently Asked Questions
At what age should I start encouraging healthy eating habits?
It’s never too early. Even toddlers pick up on food attitudes at home, so the earlier you build calm, positive routines around meals, the more naturally healthy habits will stick as your child grows.
My child says they’re not hungry at every dinner — what should I do?
Don’t force them to eat, but avoid offering a treat or substitute afterwards. If this happens often, take a look at what they’re drinking or snacking on earlier in the day, as juice and snacks can fill them up before dinner.
Is it okay to hide vegetables in food if my child won’t eat them?
Yes — blitzing vegetables into a sauce or favourite dish is a perfectly reasonable option if your child consistently refuses certain foods. It’s also worth continuing to offer the vegetable on its own from time to time, so they get used to seeing and tasting it.
How do I stop mealtimes turning into a fight?
Involve your child in preparing the food rather than insisting they eat what’s put in front of them. Giving them some control — chopping, stirring, tasting as they go — tends to defuse tension far more effectively than a standoff at the table.
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If you found these tips useful, why not save this article to come back to next time mealtimes get tricky? You’ll also find plenty more practical, parent-tested advice on feeding fussy eaters and building healthy family routines across our food and recipes section.
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