At the end of a long day, it’s easy to look around at the unwashed dishes, the laundry pile, and the toys scattered across the floor and wonder what you actually achieved. If you’ve ever felt that quiet guilt of “I didn’t get anything done today,” this poem is for you.
What Did I Do Today is part of our ongoing series of poems for parents — the kind of writing that puts words to feelings most parents carry but rarely say out loud. It’s a gentle reminder that the things that matter most — a held hand, a wiped tear, a game of hide and seek — rarely show up on a to-do list. So next time you’re tallying up the day by how tidy the house looks, go easy on yourself. The important work is still getting done.
What Did I Do Today?
Today I left some dishes dirty;
The bed got made around 3:30.
The diapers soaked a little longer,
The odor grew a little stronger.
The crumbs I spilled the day before,
Are staring at me from the floor.
The fingerprints there on the wall,
Will likely be there still next fall.
The dirty streaks on those windowpanes
Will still be there next time it rains.
Shame on you, you sit and say,
Just what did you do today?
I held a baby till she slept,
I held a toddler while he wept.
I played a game of hide and seek;
I squeezed a toy so it would squeak.
I pulled a wagon, sang a song,
Taught a child right from wrong.
What did I do this whole day through?
Not much that shows, I guess that’s true.
Unless you think that what I’ve done,
Might be important to someone,
With deep green eyes and soft brown hair,
If that is true . . . I’ve done my share.
Author: Unknown
Why This Poem Still Means So Much to Parents
There’s a reason this poem gets shared again and again. It puts into words something most parents feel but rarely say: that the day-to-day work of raising a child — the comforting, the teaching, the playing, the patience — doesn’t leave a visible trace the way a clean kitchen does. But it matters more than any of it.
If today felt like “nothing got done,” it’s worth asking: whose day got a little easier, a little softer, a little safer because you were there? That’s the real answer to what you did today.
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FAQs About “What Did I Do Today?”
Who wrote the poem “What Did I Do Today”?
The author of this poem is listed as unknown. It has been widely shared among parenting communities for years, which is part of why it still resonates today.
Is this poem about a specific age group?
Not really — the poem touches on moments that feel familiar whether you’re parenting a baby, a toddler, or an older child, from soothing a crying little one to teaching right from wrong.
Can I share this poem with other parents?
Of course. If it made you feel seen, chances are it will do the same for a friend having one of those days. Sharing it with a fellow parent is one of the simplest ways to pass on a bit of comfort.
Feeling Understood? There’s More Where That Came From
If this poem gave you a moment to breathe, take a look through our other poems for parents — honest, comforting reads for the days when you need reminding that you’re doing better than you think.
Did this poem strike a chord with you? Let us know in the comments below.
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