Between the school run, the laundry, the meals and the endless tidying, parenting can feel like a job that never quite finishes. This gentle poem by Rose Milligan, “Dust If You Must,” is a lovely reminder to pause. The years with your children move faster than the housework ever will, and it’s the time spent with them — not the state of the house — that you’ll remember most.
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Dust If You Must by Rose Milligan
Dust if you must, but wouldn’t it be better
To paint a picture, or write a letter,
Bake a cake, or plant a seed;
Ponder the difference between want and need?
Dust if you must, but there’s not much time,
With rivers to swim, and mountains to climb;
Music to hear, and books to read;
Friends to cherish, and life to lead.
Dust if you must, but the world’s out there
With the sun in your eyes, and the wind in your hair;
A flutter of snow, a shower of rain,
This day will not come around again.
Dust if you must, but bear in mind,
Old age will come and it’s not kind.
And when you go (and go you must)
You, yourself, will make more dust.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Who wrote “Dust If You Must”?
The poem was written by Rose Milligan. It has become a favourite among parents for its warm, honest reminder to choose connection over chores.
What is “Dust If You Must” about?
It’s about priorities. The poem gently suggests that time spent living, creating and being present with the people you love matters far more than keeping every surface spotless.
Why do parents love this poem so much?
Because it puts words to a feeling most parents recognise — the pull between everyday tasks and the fleeting, precious time spent with your children while they’re small.
More Poems and Reads for Parents
If this poem struck a chord, you’ll likely enjoy “Before There Was You,” another tender read for parents linked above. Save this page or bookmark it so you can come back to “Dust If You Must” whenever you need the reminder.
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