13 Things They Don’t Warn You About When Your Child is Starting School

Jill Holtz

August 8, 2017

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As my two children ventured into new territory with starting school, particularly with the first child to go to school, there are a few things that I wish I’d known about! Here are 13 Things They Don’t Warn You About When Your Child is Starting School:

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#1. How stressful school mornings can be

It’s true, school mornings can be very stressful, between getting everyone up, fed, watered, dressed, teeth, lunches in bags, water bottles filled up and out the door.
My tip is to get up a little earlier than you need, as an extra ten minutes can help make the morning a little less stressful.

#2. How stressful school runs can be

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Who knew that school runs could be so stressful? Stuck in traffic, then trying to abide by safe parking rules, find a place to park, avoid making other drivers annoyed at you, avoid getting annoyed at other drivers, dropping the kids to the gate, placating an unhappy child (why do they always leave it until the last minute to have a meltdown?), then rushing off to start the next stage of your journey…

You might find 21 School Travel Safety Rules for Kids Parents Shouldn’t Ignore useful

#3. The amount of admin and paperwork there is

Every week there are texts and papers coming home that need to be read and signed. I find the texts the worst because I often forget later about them.

My tip is to check with the kids as soon as they are home if they got any notes that day, rather than finding them 3 days later scrunched and soggy at the bottom of their bags.

#4. The constant requests for money that you’ll get


Who knew school was so expensive?? Between voluntary contributions, school trips, dress down days for charity and bake sales, it’s a constant stream of requests for cash.
My tip: keep a few coins handy for the last minute requests. “I need 2 euro for tomorrow”

#5. All the items that will be lost

We actually got off remarkably well the last few years considering but I didn’t think my daughter would manage to lose not one but two winter coats at school, never to be found again… Labelling is a must!

#6. You’ll get sick of making lunches

By the end of school term I am thoroughly sick of making lunchboxes up. I end up throwing in the same old same old and run out of inspiration for new fillings or things to try.

You might find 100 Healthy Lunch Box Ideas Your Kids Will Love useful

#7. The amount of time homework will take

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Again we’re probably quite lucky in that our primary school had a policy of not sending home as much homework as other schools, but it still takes up time after school. Your child is hungry and tired from school and the last thing they want to do is homework but in my experience it’s best to feed and water them and then settle them down to get it out the way early.

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#8. How much printing you’ll end up doing

Stock up on those printer cartridges now or buy a few multipacks because you’ll be printing notes, timetables, book lists, school calendars, presentations for school projects and more…

#9. Last minute projects

Without fail, about 8pm on Sunday evening your child will inform you that they should have completed a project or made a costume to bring tomorrow.

#10. Head lice…

I wish I had known what a pest (literally) head lice would be. Despite keeping on top of combing and tea tree oil sprayed on the hair, we still ended up with the pesky creatures.

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#11. They will be STARVING when they come home


Always have some food ready for when they come home from school. I usually make a pot of soup (gets the veg in) so that there’s hot soup and bread or rolls, as it’s quick and easy to make, you can make it in advance and just reheat later for them.

You might find 16 Splendid Soup Recipes that the Kids Will Love and 12 Quick Ideas for After School Snacks useful

#12. Your weekends will now be taken up with school friends’ parties

You will now be required to drop off and pick up your child at weekends for parties. The worst party invites are the ones that start at 4pm on a Sunday…

#13. Your Sundays will now be taken up with laundry and ironing

To get ahead and not have a last minute panic, I usually wash the school uniform on Friday night so that it dries over Saturday but that does mean ironing duty is then on a Sunday.

Over to you now. What do you wish you’d known about when your child was starting school? Tell us in the comments below.

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Published On: August 8th, 2017 / Categories: School / Last Updated: April 5th, 2021 / Tags: , , , /

About the Author: Jill Holtz

Jill is one of the co-founders of Mykidstime and a mum of 2 girls

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