10 Things Not to Do When Choosing a Baby Name

Picking baby names is very personal and you will discover (especially as a first time parent) how opinionated people are on names. There are some pitfalls to avoid so we have put together a list of 10 Things Not to Do when Choosing a Baby Name: 

#1. Choosing a First Name that Doesn’t go with a Surname

You don’t want names that sound like stutters or tongue twisters. Check the length and rhythm of the first name combined with the surname.

#2. Not Spotting Those Hidden Landmines

My room mate at college had a boyfriend Andrew Ness which sounded reasonable until you read his shortened name A. Ness. Remember first names are often put in initial form and check the full initials of your child’s name too including their middle name to avoid any disastrous initial combinations like BLT (unless of course you are a big BLT fan!).

#3. Not Checking Alliteration

Be cautious of first names and surnames starting with the same letter. Often they sound like characters from a children’s nursery rhyme e.g. Peter Potter.

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#4. Not checking nicknames

Have a think about what your child’s nickname might be. Check that the shorter name or nickname works with the surname. Benjamin Dover sounds reasonable but Ben Dover ….

#5. Forgetting about Correcting

If you are thinking about picking an unusual or hard to spell name, remember your child will likely have to spell it all their life. My daughter Blythe always has to spell her name, but she is used to it now. Just something to be aware of that you may be landing them with life long spelling!

#6. Not Fitting with Sibling Names

Think how you would call your children to dinner and whether the pairing (or tripling or more) of your kids’ names works together. Sam and Ella are individually lovely names but when called together form “Salmonella”!

Some people like to avoid sibling names all starting with the same letter too.

#7. Not considering overpopularity

Check our top baby names lists for last year to see which names are particularly popular. You might be happy to go with a popular name or you might want to avoid your child being in with 16 other Ashleys in their kindergarten class.

#8. Not checking the meaning of your baby name

You might want to check the meaning of your baby name and make sure it’s positive.

#9. Telling other people

baby-19003_640In my experience telling people name choices meant a variety of reactions, some not good. It might be wise to keep potential names to yourself to avoid the “Oh I hate that name” reaction and thereby tainting the name.

After all no one is going to say that once they see the cute baby and hear the name!

#10. Not considering family and tradition

This depends very much on your family and how important handed down names are. But at least take time to consider past family names. They may make suitable middle names and you might even find a gem name amongst the past family tree members.

The important thing is that you and your partner love the name. Some people advise picking the name you would have loved for yourself as that can be an indicator of a strong name and one that you will enjoy calling your child.

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Jill is one of the co-founders of Mykidstime and a mum of 2 girls